Architects are the new comedians.
Why be formal when you can be fabulously feral? Why be conventional when you can be happy?
If there is such a person on the planet, then he or she-this self-appointed arbiter of “appropriateness”-deserves to be confronted with as many “inappropriate” transgressions as possible.
The charming shall inherit the Earth.
Dressing down is a crime against humanity.
The important thing is not to be masochistic. Women are so hard on themselves. Don't do that. No one is keeping score.