If there is such a thing as marriage, it takes place long before the ceremony; in a car on the way to the airport; or as a gray bedrooms fills with dawn, one lover watching the other; or as two strangers stand together in the rain with no bus in sight, arms weighed down with shopping bags. You don't know then. But later you realize - that was the moment.

Love is also a violence, and cannot be undone.

There are some lies that, under the right circumstances, are the only truth

Music helps us understand where we have come from but, more importantly, what has happened to us.

But say you do find the right people - how do you love them without smothering them?...How do you not suffocate them with all the love you've built up in their absence?

You were unsure which pain is worse -- the shock of what happened or the ache for what never will.

Life just swallows you up, doesn't it?Just swallows you up with its everyday things