Widowers marry again because it makes their lives easier. Widows often don't, because it makes their lives harder. [p. 61]
Siri HustvedtThere is this assumption that much of what I write is about my life, and that simply is not true.
Siri HustvedtIntellectual curiosity about one's own illness is certainly born of a desire for mastery. If I couldn't cure myself, perhaps I could at least begin to understand myself.
Siri HustvedtOur brain and our whole nervous system and our whole body are only created in relation to other people and to the environment. So what we have here is an enormously complex notion of both consciousness and unconsciousness. That's why these models get very difficult, because you can't reduce our subjective and intersubjective experience to neural reductions.
Siri Hustvedt