In my teens I saw the world in only black and white. Now I know that most things exist in a certain gray area. Though it took a while to get here, I now call this gray area home. I once believed that participating in a capitalist economy would be the death of me, but now realize that agonizing over the political implications of every move I make isnโt exactly living.
Sophia AmorusoThe last thing Iโd ever subscribe to are fashion rules. However, I do think that you should put effort into what you wear. Clothing is ultimately the suit of armor in which we battle the world. When you choose your clothing right, it feels good. And thereโs nothing shallow about feeling good. Owning your style, however, is much more about your attitude than it is about whatโs on your back. But donโt underestimate the transformational possibilities that getting dressed can afford you.
Sophia AmorusoYou're investing in a different part of your life that is really important. It's not as important when you're a kid and you don't require sleep, and you don't get hung over, and you can fire on all cylinders. At 32 I don't consider myself old by any means, but you just find yourself in a place where you can't do everything the way you once did, and you have to take time to reflect and I think that's really important, because you get to appreciate what you have, and to enjoy it.
Sophia AmorusoIf youโre frustrated because youโre not getting what you want, stop for a second: Have you actually flat-out asked for it? If you havenโt, stop complaining. You canโt expect the world to read your mind. You have to put it out there, and sometimes putting it out there is as simple as just saying, โHey, can I have that?
Sophia Amoruso