Its not about being included. It about creating your own space and including yourself and then finding other people that are like okay.
Sophia AmorusoYou have to ask yourself a lot of questions and probably go to therapy to make sure that you're not someone who's in love with themselves. And also if you're vain enough, then you know that is a bad look!
Sophia AmorusoCreate your own job. Become the master of what you do. Fully imerse yourself in your culter. Be humble. You are never above having to pack boxes. Never forget where you came from. And always be polite. Good old-fashioned manners can get you very far. -Jenne Lomardo
Sophia AmorusoMany people are too lazy to go out, can't afford to, or are too swamped. If you can manage your workload and get out for lunch, more power to you. You're at the wrong employer if you find yourself penalized for something so human.
Sophia AmorusoNo matter where you are in life, you'll save a lot of time by not worrying too much about what other people think about you. The earlier in your life that you can learn that, the easier the rest of it will be.
Sophia AmorusoYou don't get taken seriously by asking someone to take you seriously. Youโve got to show up and own it. If this is a manโs world, who cares? Iโm still really glad to be a girl in it.
Sophia AmorusoYou're investing in a different part of your life that is really important. It's not as important when you're a kid and you don't require sleep, and you don't get hung over, and you can fire on all cylinders. At 32 I don't consider myself old by any means, but you just find yourself in a place where you can't do everything the way you once did, and you have to take time to reflect and I think that's really important, because you get to appreciate what you have, and to enjoy it.
Sophia AmorusoThat has been challenging but also such a pleasure to branch out and do different things.
Sophia AmorusoOne of the best things about lifeโa reason not to go blindly after one goal and one goal onlyโis that sometimes it will take you to something that is way cooler than anything you would have consciously set out to do in the first place.
Sophia AmorusoIf youโre frustrated because youโre not getting what you want, stop for a second: Have you actually flat-out asked for it? If you havenโt, stop complaining. You canโt expect the world to read your mind. You have to put it out there, and sometimes putting it out there is as simple as just saying, โHey, can I have that?
Sophia AmorusoIf you believe that what youโre doing will have positive results, it willโ even if itโs not immediately obvious.
Sophia AmorusoWe choose what and how we believe, and our beliefs are tools that we then use to make things happen ... or not.
Sophia AmorusoYou combine hard work, creativity, and self-determination, and things start to happen.
Sophia AmorusoThere's so many moving pieces, but to be as public as I've become and to be at the front and take the brunt of anything that happens is a huge responsibility, but also something that takes some time to step into and that has been really challenging.
Sophia AmorusoI'm not out there picking out every single item that we sell, and also we don't even make every single item that we sell.
Sophia AmorusoTo be an author, and an executive producer, and a host, and I don't even know, I mean I actually have a resume now, which is pretty cool.
Sophia AmorusoThe last thing Iโd ever subscribe to are fashion rules. However, I do think that you should put effort into what you wear. Clothing is ultimately the suit of armor in which we battle the world. When you choose your clothing right, it feels good. And thereโs nothing shallow about feeling good. Owning your style, however, is much more about your attitude than it is about whatโs on your back. But donโt underestimate the transformational possibilities that getting dressed can afford you.
Sophia AmorusoThe last thing the world needs is another boring person or another boring brand, so embrace all the things that make you different. Alter your clothes all you want, but don't you dare alter your inner freak - she's got your back as much as I do.
Sophia AmorusoI'm telling you that you don't have to choose between smart and sexy. You can have both. You are both.
Sophia AmorusoFocus on the positive things in your life and you'll be shocked at how many more positive things start happening
Sophia AmorusoWhen your goal is to gain experience, perspective, and knowledge, failure is no longer a possibility
Sophia AmorusoThe world loves to tell you how difficult things are, and the world's not exaggerating. But difficult doesn't mean impossible, and out of the bajillions of things in this universe that you can't control, what you can control is how hard you try, and if or when to pack it in.
Sophia AmorusoWell advice people have told me that is that, "If people aren't suing you, you haven't made it," which I don't necessarily believe but with greater success comes greater responsibility and being one of the few female entrepreneurs who I think has been as public as I have been, you're definitely under a spotlight. It's difficult to manage.
Sophia AmorusoIt's definitely scary to follow a book that's been turned into a Netflix series and found as much success as Girlboss did.
Sophia AmorusoItโs cool to be kind. Itโs cool to be weird. Itโs cool to be honest and to be secure with yourself.
Sophia AmorusoThe biggest challenge is people thinking you know everything going on in your company, because you're at the top of it and you started it. But the thing is, nobody knows everything about anything.
Sophia AmorusoAbandon anything about your life and habits that might be holding you back. Learn to create your own opportunities. Know that there is no finish line; fortune favors action. Race balls-out toward the extraordinary life that youโve always dreamed of, or still havenโt had time to dream up. And prepare to have a hell of a lot of fun along the way.
Sophia AmorusoItโs the age-old concept of like attracts like, or the law of attraction. You get back what you put out, so you might as well think positively, focus on visualizing what you want instead of getting distracted by what you donโt want, and send the universe your good intentions so that it can send them right back.
Sophia AmorusoWithout ego I don't know how identity works, I don't know... I need to sit down and re-read some philosophy or something.
Sophia AmorusoJust balancing all the different projects, I mean I spent almost 10 years just doing Nasty Gal and I say "just" but that was a lot, and it's still a lot.
Sophia AmorusoThe energy you'll expend focusing on someone else's life is better spent working on your own. Just be your own idol.
Sophia AmorusoThere is no normal. What my job was a few years ago was completely different than what it is today. As soon as I have it dialed in, the company changes and the team changes and my role changes as a result. What the company needs is always evolving, and I don't get to choose what I want to do as much as I thought I would be now - which is OK. It keeps me in this position of learning new things and keeping me humble. There is always something I don't know, and I'm comfortable with that.
Sophia AmorusoI stopped feeling like I didn't belong anywhere, and realized that I actually belonged anywhere I wanted to be.
Sophia AmorusoIn my teens I saw the world in only black and white. Now I know that most things exist in a certain gray area. Though it took a while to get here, I now call this gray area home. I once believed that participating in a capitalist economy would be the death of me, but now realize that agonizing over the political implications of every move I make isnโt exactly living.
Sophia AmorusoIt's a huge assortment that we have under our roof and I don't know, it's just managing a taste level and execution of a vision. I think our team does as incredible job at it but it takes incredible leadership and I'm only really a spark for all of that. I'm not out there at every trade show, and so having an amazing team that can keep that vision month after month and keep the assortment consistent is a huge challenge. But something I think we execute every well.
Sophia AmorusoI'm just always making things that are personal but hopefully also inspiring, and share not just my story, but other people's stories.
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