Abandon anything about your life and habits that might be holding you back. Learn to create your own opportunities. Know that there is no finish line; fortune favors action. Race balls-out toward the extraordinary life that youโve always dreamed of, or still havenโt had time to dream up. And prepare to have a hell of a lot of fun along the way.
Sophia AmorusoIf youโre frustrated because youโre not getting what you want, stop for a second: Have you actually flat-out asked for it? If you havenโt, stop complaining. You canโt expect the world to read your mind. You have to put it out there, and sometimes putting it out there is as simple as just saying, โHey, can I have that?
Sophia AmorusoThere is no normal. What my job was a few years ago was completely different than what it is today. As soon as I have it dialed in, the company changes and the team changes and my role changes as a result. What the company needs is always evolving, and I don't get to choose what I want to do as much as I thought I would be now - which is OK. It keeps me in this position of learning new things and keeping me humble. There is always something I don't know, and I'm comfortable with that.
Sophia AmorusoIts not about being included. It about creating your own space and including yourself and then finding other people that are like okay.
Sophia AmorusoWhat do you do when youโre living in a hut for $500 a month and subsisting on Boston Market and Subway? You just keep doing what youโre doing.
Sophia AmorusoIn my teens I saw the world in only black and white. Now I know that most things exist in a certain gray area. Though it took a while to get here, I now call this gray area home. I once believed that participating in a capitalist economy would be the death of me, but now realize that agonizing over the political implications of every move I make isnโt exactly living.
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