When you move beyond your fear, you feel free.
When you stop being afraid you feel good
What would you do if you weren't afraid?
Sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times. That's life! Life moves on. And so should we.
Being in the uncomfortable zone is much better than staying in the cheese-less situation .
I think you have to be much more secure and much less angry to trust the simple. You've got to be in a pretty good place to trust those simple, obvious answers and, most important, to use them.