Patriarchy values the hard over the soft; the tough over the tender; punishment, vengeance, and vindictiveness over compassion, negotiation, and reconciliation. The 'hard' qualities are linked to power, success, and masculinity - and exalted. The 'soft' qualities are identified with weakness, powerlessness, and femininity - and denigrated.
StarhawkIn a culture where profit has become the true God, self-sacrifice can seem incomprehensible rather than noble.
StarhawkCommunity means strength that joins our strength to do the work that needs to be done. Arms to hold us when we falter. A circle of healing. A circle of friends. Someplace where we can be free.
StarhawkWhat shames us, what we most fear to tell, does not set us apart from others; it binds us together if only we can take the risk to speak it.
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