It should not be difficult to accept the idea that someone else is, in 'your experience of them', in part your self-creation. But it is difficult and sometimes impossible. Impossible because accepting the idea that you are in part creating your 'other' forces you to take on board a high degree of self responsibility. Few of us easily do that. p.234

Opening to the sacred, we transform our vision of ourselves.

Your attitude to life is far more important in determining your happiness than your money, appearance, social status or talent.

LISTEN to the small, quiet voice within that only ever guides you with love and compassion. Let yourself receive the inspiration of beauty and kindness. Let yourself rediscover peace in your heart. And, from that secure place, meet whatever comes.

It is precisely in relationships of intimacy that your craziness (and mine) will be hardest to conceal.

Restraint offers a space between intention and action and the opportunity to protect others from actions or reactions that should exist only in your imagination

How we feel about our own self, how well or little we know our own self, whether we feel alive inside, largely determine the quality of the time we spend alone, as well as the quality of the relationships we have with other people.