Part of the reason I wrote the book was I wanted to understand for myself why such good people let themselves get treated so badly.
Stephen ChboskyI am writing to you because she said you listen and understand and didn't try to sleep with that person at that party even though you could have.
Stephen ChboskyIt's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things.
Stephen ChboskyI know that things get worse before they get better because thatโs what my psychiatrist says, but this is a worse that feels too big.
Stephen Chbosky