You cannot have an advanced economy while holding women back from the workplace.

Marriage is not one point of view: it's a constant back and forth over different perspectives - a healthy marriage, anyway.

Women become breadwinners, men become caregivers. That's the birth of intimate marriage.

One thing you can say about Trump is that he is not a traditional patriarch. He has a wife who's not even in the White House. And you could say the same of Duterte in the Philippines and of Putin. They're parodies of masculinity. They're hyper-masculine, but they're also totally unsure of their masculinity, and they parade it around.

The first things that babies can notice is sex; the first thing that you can tell about a person when you see them walking down the street is their gender.

The more money women make, the less violence, the less sexual crimes against women. Everything horrific and misogynistic declines. But then what you're dealing with here is "What does it mean to be in love with people who are your equals?" And that's a very beautiful thing that we should cherish, but it's also incredibly tough in some ways.

Men who define themselves as breadwinners are going to have to leave the traditional iconography of masculinity behind if they want to be breadwinners.