Almost all the voices in history have been men, but on this one question of gender, men don't talk about it. This has nothing to do with women; it has to do with men.

The wilderness within us is actually the best part of us.

You have two things happening: You have the cultural and economic reality of men falling apart and traditional masculinity falling apart.

I'd never call myself a feminist, and that the world doesn't need male feminists.

You cannot have an advanced economy while holding women back from the workplace.

The research points pretty clearly to the rise of companionate marriage, and I just think it's going to keep being popular, for the very simple reason that it's basically the only way to afford a family life in the 21st-century in advanced economies. It's one of the major reasons for the spike in income inequality. Surgeons used to marry their secretaries. Now they marry other surgeons.

Men who define themselves as breadwinners are going to have to leave the traditional iconography of masculinity behind if they want to be breadwinners.