I don't remember things initially when listening to music. Like, I don't remember where I first heard a song, I don't have nostalgic attachment to a song in that it reminds me of such and such a time or place. I think I probably did experience that somewhat when I was not a full-time, professional musician, but I don't think music works that way for people who are in it constantly.
Stephin MerrittI don't think there are any clichรฉs I try to avoid. As soon as I spot a clichรฉ, I go for it. I feel like clichรฉs are the most useful thing in songwriting. They're the tool on which you build all the rest of the song.
Stephin MerrittIf you want to write a love song, you need to not try to write it for a particular person in a particular situation. It needs to be vague, otherwise you're going to fall into trap after trap of trying to rhyme with somebody's name. Keep it vague.
Stephin MerrittSurf is that music which is entirely about evoking something. There's never any vocals, so it's not about the lyrics, it's about the reverb.
Stephin MerrittThere's already a great deal to do writing the songs. And if I were completely in control of it, nobody would be able to say "this song doesn't work."
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