When I walk out into the street or go to the toilet, I don't think of myself as being black. Of course, other people think of me as black when I walk into a pub. Obviously being black is a part of me.
Nobody trusts anyone, or why did they put tilt on a pinball machine.
I worked hard, and if you work hard you get the goodies.
People try to contain things by putting them into categories. I don't.
The person is being confrontational.
Often the best way to relax is just to go back to work.