If you dislike the answers you’re getting from life, try asking better questions.

Security is worthless if you have to sacrifice growth to get it

The only thing stopping you is fear, and the only thing that will get you past it is courage. What you do with your life isn't up to your parents, your boss, or your spouse. It's up to you and you alone.

Fear is not your enemy. It is a compass pointing you to the areas where you need to grow.

Your values are your current estimations of truth. They represent your answer to the question of how to live.

Your beliefs about reality become your beliefs about yourself.

If you really believe something, you will act in accordance with that belief - always. If you believe in gravity, you will never attempt to defy it. If you claim to hold a belief but act incongruently, then you don't actually believe it. You're only kidding yourself. Casual faith isn't.