Being the โbest you can beโ is really only possible when you are deeply connected to another. Splendid isolation is for planets, not people.
Sue JohnsonIn insecure relationships, we disguise our vulnerabilities so our partner never really sees us.
Sue JohnsonWhen love doesn't work, we hurt. Indeed, โhurt feelingsโ is a precisely accurate phrase, according to psychologist Naomi Eisenberger of the University of California. Her brain imaging studies show that rejection and exclusion trigger the same circuits in the same part of the brain, the anterior cingulate, as physical pain.
Sue JohnsonThe most functional way to regulate difficult emotions in love relationships is to share them.
Sue Johnson