And what if weโd been utterly open? Made jokes about the first wife? What if weโd been that kind of family? Well, I would have been different, surely. But not because I knew the secret. For it wasnโt the secretโthe secret that wasnโt a secret anywayโthat led to the austerity in our lives. It was the austerity that led to the secret. And what I had been marked by, probably most of all, was the austerity. It had made secrets in my life too. Or silences, anyway, that became secrets. That became lies.
Sue MillerI suppose in our contemporary lives, our cumulative e-mails might constitute a kind of diary: that informal, moment-by-moment description of life as it goes by. . As I think of those notes now - what I wrote, what I said - it seems to me they danced across the surface just as my grandmother's diaries did - Anais Nin she wasn't, and I wasn't, either. Who is? Not even Anais Nin.
Sue MillerKids need to see that Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to us. And they need to know it can happen to them.
Sue MillerLoss brings pain. Yes. But pain triggers memory. And memory is a kind of new birth, within each of us. And it is that new birth after long pain, that resurrection - in memory - that, to our surprise, perhaps, comforts us.
Sue Miller