Women were also urged to work on a mysterious quality called 'fascination.' Coming of age in the 1920's was a competitive business.

The bias against introversion leads to a colossal waste of talent, energy, and happiness.

Jealousy is an ugly emotion, but it tells the truth. You mostly envy those who have what you desire.

In our society, the ideal self is bold, gregarious, and comfortable in the spotlight. We like to think that we value individuality, but mostly we admire the type of individual who’s comfortable "putting himself out there."

Another study, of 38,000 knowledge workers across different sectors, found that the simple act of being interrupted is one of the biggest barriers to productivity. Even multitasking, that prized feat of modern-day office warriors, turns out to be a myth.

We put too much of a premium on presenting and not enough on substance and critical thinking.

Do you really believe in what you said or wrote – in the thing that’s bringing criticism? And if I do believe it, I can withstand anything.