Don't give up your power to change things. Negativity and unhappiness are caused by you. You can change your attitude.
Swami SatchidanandaIf you have done something meritorious, you experience pleasure and happiness; if wrong things, suffering. A happy or unhappy life is your own creation. Nobody else is responsible. If you remember this, you wonโt find fault with anybody. You are your own best friend as well as your worst enemy. (99)
Swami Satchidananda