The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
Sydney J. HarrisWhen we have "second thoughts" about something, our first thoughts don't seem like thoughts at all - just feelings.
Sydney J. HarrisA loser says that's the way it's always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
Sydney J. HarrisA winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too Forgiveness breaks the chain of causality because he who forgives you -- out of love -- takes upon himself the consequences of what you have done. Forgiveness, therefore, always entails a sacrifice.
Sydney J. Harris