Every time you give a parent a sense of success or of empowerment, you're offering it to the baby indirectly. Because every time a parent looks at that baby and says 'Oh, you're so wonderful,' that baby just bursts with feeling good about themselves.

You learn more from your mistakes than you do from your successes.

All adults who care about a baby will naturally be in competition for that baby.... Each adult wishes that he or she could do each job a bit more skillfully for the infant or small child than the other.

Parents don't make mistakes because they don't care, but because they care so deeply.

A grandchild is a miracle, but a renewed relationship with your own children is even a greater one.

Families need families. Parents need to be parented. Grandparents, aunts, and uncles are back in fashion because they are necessary. Stresses on many families are out of proportion to anything two parents can handle.

Grandparents who want to be truly helpful will do well to keep their mouths shut and their opinions to themselves until these are requested.