[Kay] was not at all an unpleasant person really, but clever, quick, proud, passionate and ambitious. He was one of those people who would be neither a follower nor a leader, but only an aspiring heart, impatient in the failing body which imprisoned it.
T. H. WhitePerhaps he does not want to be friends with you until he knows what you are like. With owls, it is never easy-come-easy-go.
T. H. White