If we just allowed women and men more leeway in our culture and more acceptance, I think they would be able to make better compromises.
Tamora PierceFeelings, she learned, were hard to fight. She treasured his smiles and compliments and tried not to dwell on the fact that he gave this things to his friend Kel. His dreamy-eyed gazes, poems, and fits of passionate melancholy were for Uline. It was hard not to resent the older girl.
Tamora Pierce