The one thing I think you must do is, as painful as it is as a parent, is listen.
I was desperate to go back to New York and when 9/11 happened, I feared moving to the bulls-eye and that was very hard because I have a lot of family there and I really had to question what I didn't like about this community.
I have always loathed working out.
Shopping turns me off.
I've been in a gym probably nine days of my life.
I don't mean to be presumptuous that men don't feel this, I don't mean this, but I found that when my child was born, my first child, it felt like my heart broke.