Mistakes are the byproduct of action - and thus an accurate gauge of effort.
Talent is truth on display.
A child should have every advantage - including those taught by disadvantage.
Self-esteem is the prize awarded by you to you for playing by your own rules - in which case, you'd think it would be easier to come by.
You must -- you MUST -- choose well.
Most will choose to leave someone who can't bear to see them go.