It is hard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because we are not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creating a new "pearl" as we are in being right.
Thomas CrumBeing willing to change allows you to move from a point of view to a viewing point - a higher, more expansive place, from which you can see both sides.
Thomas CrumEmbracing conflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration can lead to growth and fascination.
Thomas Crum