I think it's easy to mistake understanding for empathy - we want empathy so badly. Maybe learning to make that distinction is part of growing up. It's hard and ugly to know somebody can understand you without even liking you.
Thomas HarrisLet me tell you about my day. I get up at 8 o'clock in the morning. At 8:30 am, I leave the house and I arrive at my office at 8:37. I stay in the office until 2 o'clock in the afternoon. I get in my Porsche and I'm home at 2:03 because the one-way streets make it faster for me to drive. And between 8:36 am and 2 pm, I'm doing one of three things: I'm writing. I'm staring out the window. Or I'm writhing on the floor.
Thomas HarrisWhat he has in addition is pure empathy and projection,โ Dr. Bloom said. โHe can assume your point of view, or mine โ and maybe some other points of view that scare and sicken him. Itโs an uncomfortable gift, Jack. Perceptionโs a tool thatโs pointed on both ends.
Thomas HarrisI'm doing one of three things: I'm writing. I'm staring out the window. Or I'm writhing on the floor.
Thomas HarrisI collect church collapses, recreationally. Did you see the recent one in Sicily? Marvelous! The facade fell on sixty-five grandmothers at a special mass. Was that evil? If so, who did it? If he's up there, he just loves it, Officer Starling. Typhoid and swans - it all comes from the same place.
Thomas Harris