A good funeral gets the dead where they need to go and the living where they need to be.
Thomas LynchWhatever's there to feel, feel itโthe riddance, the relief, the fright and freedom, the fear of forgetting, the dull ache of your own mortality. Get with someone you can trust with tears, with anger, and wonderment and utter silence.
Thomas LynchGrief is the price we pay for being close to one another. If we want to avoid our grief, we simply avoid each other.
Thomas Lynch