All the wisdom in the world cannot put in one's heart the love one yearned for as a small child.

Our limbic system sets the mind's emotional tone and stores our highly charged emotional memories.

Suffering is to the heart and soul as tears are to the eyes, cleansing and expelling toxicity from the inner system. When we do not allow ourselves to feel appropriate pain, we move into a sort of non-experience. We watch life rather than live it; we look but never get too close.

Neural repatterning comes as we enter into and sustain new types of relationships that allow us to reregulate our sense impressions slowly and over time.

Part of what makes a situation traumatic is not talking about it. Talking reduces trauma symptoms. When we don't talk about trauma, we remain emotionally illiterate. Our most powerful feelings go unnamed and unspoken.

The family is both mystery and reality; it houses our bodies and our spirits.

Only when we stop holding others accountable for all of our troubles can we truly be free.