There's a big difference between being alone and being lonely. And I'm guessing that once you've discovered this distinction you can't go back to solitary confinement without serious emotional repercussions.
Tiffanie DeBartoloThat's why you have to save the dying man. Because you want him around to keep saving you.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI just happen to comprehend the low standards of the majority of the music-buying public, and I donโt care how condescending that sounds, itโs true. They always go for the shiny gimmicks. Always.
Tiffanie DeBartoloIt sounds silly, I know. But for me, the power of music rests in its ability to reach inside and touch the places where the deepest cuts lie. Like a benevolent god, a good song will never let you down. And sometimes, when you're trying to find your way, one of those gods actually shows up and gives you directions.
Tiffanie DeBartoloThe phrase what I want struck me. It contains so much entitlement, so many complications, but encompasses only what a person doesn't have.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI am of the theory that all of our transcendental connections, anything we're drawn to, be it a person, a song, a painting on a wall--they're magnetic. The art is the alloy, so to speak. And our souls are equipped with whatever properties are required to attract that alloy. I'm no scientist so I don't really know what the hell these properties are, but my point is we're drawn to stuff we've already got a connection to. Part of the thing is already inside of us.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI'm tempted to tell you that you think too much, but I'm not really one to talk,' Jacob said. 'Henry Miller wrote something about fear making you fearless. It's a very powerful emotion. Use it to get what you want. I mean if it's going to rule our life, it might as well rule you to freedom, right?
Tiffanie DeBartoloBreak my heart? Is that what you just said? I have news for you; you didn't break my heart. My heart's fine. My heart's in the best shape of its life. You know what you did to me? You took an AK-47 and blew my soul open.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI know that if I ever have the audacity to blame fate or God for holding a gun to my temple, I also have the wherewithal to remind myself that if I end up with a hole in my head, I was the one who pulled the trigger.
Tiffanie DeBartoloPersonally, I donโt like inherently happy people. I donโt trust them. I think thereโs something seriously wrong with anyone who isnโt at least a little let down by the world.
Tiffanie DeBartoloWeโre all searching for something to fill up what I like to call that big, God-shaped hole in our souls. Some people use alcohol, or sex, or their children, or food, or money, or music, or heroin. A lot of people even use the concept of God itself. I could go on and on. I used to know a girl who used shoes. She had over two-hundred pairs. But itโs all the same thing, really. People, for some stupid reason, think they can escape their sorrows.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI'm afraid of everything. Fear of being alone, fear of being hurt, fear of being made a fool of, fear of failure... Still, I think all my fears bleed from one big one.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI'm almost thirty and my day job is folding shirts at the Gap. Have you seen my room? I'm not messy. I'm rebelling against folding.
Tiffanie DeBartoloDreams can change histories and songs can alter destinies- two ideas that on good days I believe wholeheartedly and on bad days I denounce as a bunch of bull.
Tiffanie DeBartoloIt seemed cruelly unfair to me, even then, how fast your life can change before you have an opportunity to rethink your choices. We should get second chances on the big stuff. We should come equipped with erasers attached to the tops of our heads. Like pencils. We should be able to flip over and scribble away mistakes, at least once or twice during the duration of our existence, especially in matters of life and death.
Tiffanie DeBartoloI try to find meaning anywhere I can. It's the only way I know how to validate my existence.
Tiffanie DeBartoloBottom line, Elizaโ youโre my home and my family, and I donโt want to lose you. I could lose everything else, and as long as I still had you and a guitar I know Iโd be all right. Do you get what Iโm saying?
Tiffanie DeBartoloThe question is one of faith. Faith in my talent. Faith in my decisions. And faith in the idea that the truth, even if it canโt pay my bills, can still set me free.
Tiffanie DeBartoloDid you really want to die?" "No one commits suicide because they want to die." "Then why do they do it?" "Because they want to stop the pain.
Tiffanie DeBartoloFate is just another word for people's choices coming to a head. Destiny, coincidence, whatever you name it. It inevitably lies in our hands.
Tiffanie DeBartoloFor me, the release was a spot in time with no past and no future. Just the extraordinary simplicity of a momentโ the kind of moment that has a funny way of making a person believe that life and love can last forever.
Tiffanie DeBartolo