Success Comes Through Rapidly Fixing our Mistakes Rather than Getting Things Right the First Time.

You show me a successful complex system, and I will show you a system that has evolved through trial and error.

Each additional child that you have is going to divide your time and your attention. You're going to have to cram them into a smaller house. They're going to have to share rooms, or you might have to move into the suburbs, somewhere cheaper, further away from where the job is.

There's lots and lots of guys out there. The question is trying to find the right one.

In many ways, love seems to be totally divorced from economics. But then you realize - well, the stakes are high. This is something that matters to us. We're dealing with scarcity. I mean, if you're dating one person, at the very least, you don't have as much time to date another person. And you may well find that you can only date one person at a time.

Love may be boundless and abundant, but time isn't. Time is finite.

If the whole process of learning from failure means discarding stuff that's not working, but in fact, our natural reaction is to keep going, to throw more money behind it, to throw more emotional energy behind it... that's a real problem.