God's grace and forgiveness, while free to the recipient, are always costly for the giver. From the earliest parts of the Bible, it was understood that God could not forgive without sacrifice. No one who is seriously wronged can โjust forgiveโ the perpetrator.
Timothy KellerThe gospel destroys pride because it tells us we are so lost that Jesus had to die for us.
Timothy KellerWe are so evil and sinful and flawed that Jesus had to die for us... But we are so lobed and valued that he was willing to due for us.
Timothy Keller