I've learned to love my brown eyes.
Hopefully with a woman President the double standard will slowly begin to wane.
Like anything, you just need to stay true to who you are and hope that social constructs don't get in the way of accomplishing your goals.
I have to say I've been pretty lucky in that my French fry indulgences don't really affect my skin. I keep a stable routine.
One tip is to try and give your hair some time to relax. Don't over wash or over dry it.
I want people to know that I'm a force to be reckoned with.