I don't think that you should be perยญfectly candid and frank about the intimate details of your personal life with the public at large. Subsequently, it creates considerยญable personal problems.
Tom WaitsWhen you're writingโ you're conjuring. It's a ritualโ and you need to be brave and respectful and sometimes get out of the way of whatever it is that you're inviting into the room.
Tom WaitsWhen it's raining you can't find enough things to catch it in. When it's not you can stand out in the middle of the street in a dress and a funny hat and nothing's gonna make it rain. I go through periods - or spells - when I'm more receptive.
Tom WaitsThereโs nothing more embarrassing than a person who tries to guess what the great American public would like, makes a compromise for the first time, and falls flat on his faceโฆ I would rather be a failure on my own terms than a success on someone elseโs. Thatโs a difficult statement to live up to, but then Iโve always believed that the way you affect your audience is more important than how many of them are there.
Tom Waits