All personal breakthroughs being with a change in beliefs. So how do we change? The most effective way is to get your brain to associate massive pain to the old belief.
Its not about the goal. Its about growing to become the person that can accomplish that goal.
Loss is imaginary. Nothing ever disappears in the universe; it only changes form.
What kind of person will I have to become in order to achieve all that I want?
What people CAN do is very different from what they WILL do.
If we can get to the truth, we can change anything.