But obligation, I eventually saw, is not the same as commitment, and it's certainly not an acceptable reason to stick with something that isn't working
Twyla TharpDonโt sign on for more problems than you must. Resist the temptation to involve yourself in other peopleโs zones of expertise and responsibility. Monitor troublesome situations if you need to, but donโt insert yourself unless youโre running out of time and a solution is nowhere in sight. In short, stifle your inner control freak.
Twyla Tharp