Neither fish, flesh nor good red herring.
If people talk about you behind your back, that would mean you are in front, so stay ahead.
In Scouting you are combating the brooding of selfishness.
Friends are people who know you really well and like you anyway.
It's not about who is real to your face. It's about who stays real behind your back.
I want to be like a sunflower; so that even on the darkest days I will stand tall and find the sunlight.