You cannot stop destructive actions by others, but you can stop your own destructive reactions to them
Vernon HowardWe never get upset over what happens. Never. We get upset because of preconceived ideas as to what we think should happen, what we want to happen. When our preference clashes with the reality, we get hurt. Rid yourself of all preconceived ideas as to what should happen. You are then at peace whatever happens.
Vernon HowardTruth does not really hurt, rather it is our resistance to its message that causes us pain.
Vernon Howard