The theory is that if you spill all your secrets, you'll have no desire to lie about anything, ever again. Like the worst about you is already in the open, so why not just be honest?
Veronica RothLeave her out of this" "Why? Because you're doing her? Oh wait, I forgot. Stiffs don't do that sort of thing
Veronica RothMy problem might be that even if I did go home, I wouldnโt belong there, among people who give without thinking and care without trying.
Veronica RothSometimes you just need to talk to someone who is detached from you. They just listen to what you tell them and you get to form the way that they see you, whereas everyone else in your life already thinks they know what you're dealing with or what you're going through. That's my recommendation for actual anxiety.
Veronica Roth