In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn't encourage me to be strong and make my own choices and do what's best in my life, so if you're dating someone who doesn't want you to be the best person you can be, you shouldn't be dating them.

With four? Doing a little... Addition? Multiplication?

I love the Wikipedia link chain because it has led me into some strange articles. Wikipedia is one of my favorites.

Sometimes pain is for the greater good.

We believe in bravery. We believe in taking action. We believe in freedom from fear and in acquiring the skills to force the bad out of our world so that the good can prosper and thrive. If you also believe in those things, we welcome you.

How have I never realized before that for all the strong, kind parts of him, there are also hurting, broken parts?

I was still afraid of him, I knew, but in a different way - I was no longer a child, afraid of the threat my terrifying father posed to my safety. I was a man, afraid of the threat he posed to my character, to my future, to my identity.