I need not hate any man; he cannot hurt me. I need not flatter any man; he has nothing to give me.
Virginia WoolfWas there no safety? No learning by heart of the ways of the world? No guide, no shelter, but all was miracle, and leaping from the pinnacle of a tower into the air? Could it be, even for elderly people, that this was life?--startling, unexpected, unknown?
Virginia Woolf