They may recognize themselves in what you're writing, and then they have to say, "Well, she doesn't see me as I see myself." All a writer has is her own experience, and that experience comes out of human relationships.
Vivian GornickWhat you feel when you're writing is the relief of thinking: if you write the sentence correctly, you're clarifying. If you write the right sentence, nothing feels as good.
Vivian GornickIt seems that fiction no longer produces work that makes one feel the human condition deeply.
Vivian GornickWhat happened to the writer is not what matters; what matters is the large sense that the writer is able to make of what happened.
Vivian Gornick