I will always be referred to as a theorist, but I was only a fellow traveller with a degree.
Volkmar SiguschIt's very important to approach pedophiles and pedosexuals and offer them therapy. It's been my experience that you can reach your objective with what I would call kind-hearted, informed and enlightened patients - in the sense that they don't lose their desire, but that they no longer have physical contact with children. That would be the goal.
Volkmar SiguschThere are pedosexuals who, even if the court forces them to go into treatment, do not pursue it or cannot pursue it.
Volkmar SiguschI maintain that we are still a largely ignorant society when it comes to sex. We speak incorrectly and superficially about sexuality. And when you talk about it too much, you run the risk of destroying its mystery.
Volkmar SiguschThe traits of our sexual culture are still speechlessness, loneliness, violence and not enough desire and love.
Volkmar SiguschThere are many options in a marriage. If the couple has been together for a certain amount of time and has a certain amount of liberalism or life experience, it could be the kind of relationship in which one partner ventures into the occasional affair, which is then forgiven. This only happens every 13 years on average, but it obviously does occur.
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