here's a payoff for everyone. The reason we hang on to self-defeating behaviors is because it's easier not to take responsibility.
Wayne DyerWhatever your plan, you never invest your own self-worth in its ultimate success or failure.
Wayne DyerLove is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
Wayne DyerThe problem with using force in our lives is that we always create a counterforce. For example, If you're with a child and the child says, "I hate you," which is a very low energy, and you respond with, "I hate you too," you have lowered the collective energy that you are both in, and both of you will he weakened. Whereas, if you respond to, "I hate you," with love, which is what, instinctively, we know what to do, then we can dissolve and dissipate that hatred.
Wayne Dyer