By surrendering, you create an energy field of receptivity for the solution to appear.

Take a few minutes of every day to fantasize about how you would wander, travel, or explore if you could.

Whatever the question, love is the answer.

If you blame others for something that happens in your life, then you must wait until they change in order to get better.

Imagine the word CANCEL being a huge rubber stamp in your mind. Stamp CANCEL on any self-defeating image you place in your head, and begin to think in a self-enhancing way.

By giving children lots of affection, you can help fill them with love and acceptance of themselves. Then that's what they will have to give away.

By all means give vent to your anger, let it out in nondestructive ways--if you are still deciding to have it. But begin to think of yourself as someone who can learn to think new thoughts when you are frustrated, so that the immobilizing anger can be replaced by more fulfilling emotions. Annoyance, irritation, and disappointment are feelings that you will very likely continue to experience, since the world will never be the way you want it. But anger, that hurtful emotional response to obstacles, can be eliminated.