If you subscribe to the notion of God as being separate from you, than you will always be lost, because you can't even trust in your own untrustworthiness.

I appreciate all that I am and all that I have. Stop focusing on what you do not have, and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all that you are and all that you do have.

Everything I need now is here

I think the most common meme is that it's too difficult to change. It's too risky to change. My nature doesn't allow me to change.

My goal is not to be better than anyone else..but to be better that I used to be

You never need to defend yourself or your desires to anyone, as those inner feelings are Spirit speaking to you. Those thoughts are sacred, so don't ever let anyone trample on them.

People who feel empowered by your presence become kindred spirits.