Act as if everything you desire is already here...treat yourself as if you already are what you'd like to become.
As a holistic being you shatter the illusion of your separateness and reveal your connection to everything. This empowers you in a way that the ego-driven self could never contemplate.
Love is forgiving and Love is for giving.
Know that no one is capable of making you upset without your consent.
Be what it is that you are seeking.
I think the most common meme is that it's too difficult to change. It's too risky to change. My nature doesn't allow me to change.