Your reputation is none of your business.
Know that no one is capable of making you upset without your consent.
Our lives are a sum total of the choices we have made.
Your higher self is always nudging you toward a resolution of the conflicts that you experience in your life, so that you will have room for serenity and harmony.
All forgiveness is self forgiveness.
If you are what you do, then when you don't, you aren't.