Simply put, you believer that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate. You make yourself unhappy.
Wayne DyerWhen you consider what you would love to accomplish in your life but feel ill-prepared to bring it about, picture the eighty-nine Michelangelo living five centuries ago, painting, sculpting, and writing. Imagine he is telling you that you can create whatever you desire, and the great danger is not in having too much hope, but in reaching what you have perceived as hopeless.
Wayne Dyer