I always tell students that writing a poem and publishing it are two quite separate things, and you should write what you have to write, and if you're afraid it's going to upset someone, don't publish it.
Wendy CopeBloody men are like bloody buses - you wait for about a year and as soon as one approaches your stop two or three others appear.
Wendy CopeBloody Christmas, here again, let us raise a loving cup, peace on earth, goodwill to men, and make them do the washing up.
Wendy Cope